Friday, April 28, 2006

3 Amazing Tips To Successfully Persuade Anyone

Read this.

See?

I've 'persuaded' you to read.

Having excellent persuasion skills is one of the most important
abilities to possess to get anything you want in life.

Why?

We need the support and cooperation of other people to help
us in reaching our goals. The saying "No man is an island" is
an undeniable truth.

Here are some 3 hot tips to effectively influence and persuade
anyone you desire.

1) Enter their world.

You must understand the situation according to their point of
view. Set aside your personal interests and concentrate on them.

Just pretend that if you are them, what would you do? What
would be your opinion? Then take the appropriate action that
would be beneficial to them.

Copy them. Observe how they act, how they speak, and how
they think. If they rub their forehead while they think,
act like them. If they speak at a clear and slow pace, try
to do the same thing. This is called mirroring.

In due time, the people you're mirroring will subconsciously
feel more comfortable with you. It's as if they see
themselves in you.

However, you must proceed with caution. Do not let them be
aware that you are copying them. They might interpret it as
mockery and you'll just get into trouble.

3) Provide them with compelling evidence.

Explain to them how your ideas or suggestions could be the
most effective techniques to implement. Show them undeniable
proof that you have the best product by way of testimonials,
before and after scenarios, and detailed comparisons against
your competitors. Just make sure that all your claims are
true and verifiable. Always maintain a good reputation.

4) Meet their existing needs and desires.

People are self-centered. They are initially concerned with
their own well-being before others. If you can prove that
your proposal will provide more advantageous benefits to them
than to your own, then they will probably accept it.

If you could focus more on their interests, desires, needs,
and expectations, then you would satisfy their cravings for
attention. Moreover, it would show that you really care
about them. Mutual trust and respect would be established.

This is the most important thing to remember when persuading
anyone. No matter how close you are to becoming like them or
how overwhelming your evidence is, if it does not satisfy the
"What's In It For Me?" test, your persuasion efforts will not
produce satisfactory results. Always bear in mind how they
will benefit from your actions.

Warmest regards,

Patric Chan
CEO, eSuccessMastery.com

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it's been a while since I wrote

It's been a while since I wrote to
you, hasn't it?

The main reason is because I was
away traveling in Australia for the past
10 days for business.

But I'll promise to write to you again
when all of the dust is settled. Ton's of
workload is sitting on my computer
right now.

The other long-term reason is that
I've been busy reinventing and remodeling
www.esuccessmastery.com to provide more
valuable content. At the same time, I'll
be developing products to help you to
become successful.

From the next email onwards, you'll not
be receiving emails with the subject
"esuccessmastery" anymore, but
starting with the initials "YCDI".

"YCDI" is a short form for You "Chan
Do" It Personal Achievement System.

In a nutshell, a lot of good stuff is
coming to you.

By the way, if you have not visited
Australia before, do consider to go
there for a vacation. It's a beautiful
and clean place. I like it. People there
are also very warm and friendly. I think
you might like it as well.

I'll write to you again soon.

Warm regards,

Patric Chan
Founder of The "CHAN DO"
Personal Achievement System















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